LIFC 302 Quiz 3

LIFC 302 Quiz 3: Communication Skills and Family Relationships

1. All of the following are examples of how Jesus used questions except:
2. Other couples are not a helpful resource for marriage mentors.
3. What is considered a key intuition indicator?
4. People are usually oriented toward thoughts or feelings, instead of maintaining an equal balance of both.
5. Marriage mentors are expected to have all the answers.
6. Although marriage coaching takes time and effort, it generally does not need to be action-oriented?
7. Marriage coaching is only ever effective when both partners are completely dedicated to improving the marriage.
8. Listening does which of the following:
9. Which of the following is not included in the authors advice to women?
10. All of the following are true of setting goals in marriage except
11. What is involved in the brainstorming, evaluating, and committing step in goal setting?
12. Feelings and thoughts are mutually exclusive and do not occur together.
13. What dose it mean to have S.M.A.R.T. goals? Having goals that are:
14. What fosters effective listening?
15. According to the authors, what is the first challenge of every mentor couple?
16. First foremost, it is most important to be prepared with the “right” questions.
17. According to the text, which of the following is not included in the Guidelines for Effective Listening?
18. Which of the following is not a situation that cultivates selfishness and pride in relationships?
19. One reason to withhold advice-giving in marriage mentoring is because it can easily be _______ instead of for the best interest of the couple.
20. Once you recognize the power of this skill, you will never approach marriage mentoring relationships without it. What is this skill?
21. According to the text, all of the above are useful leads for the active listener except:
22. What is the significance of asking a mentoree couple “What do you cry about?”
23. What are the two components of life-giving conversation?
24. The best kinds of questions to ask are:
25. What is the process for life-giving conversations?
26. Which are examples of potential barriers to effective listening?
27. Which is not one of the six questions Maxwell uses to help him in conversations:
28. Questions should come from the heart, but it is okay to ask questions you’ve used before that you know elicit good conversation.
29. The skill of effective listening is also known as:
30. Asking a mentoree couple “What do you sing about?” is referring to:
31. The bad news about effective listening and the major reason that is it so difficult is because it isn’t human nature and the skill of doing it effectively isn’t common.
32. Some of the best “questions” aren’t really questions at all.
33. Thinking you have little to learn from your mentorees is which potential barrier to effective listening?
34. What does having a conversation about goals and desires involve?
35. What activity did the author use as an analogy to explain loving listening?
36. What does the author instruct men to do?
37. According to the text, which of the following should NOT be explored in intimate conversations?
38. Silence in response to a question can be a positive reaction and an indication that the other person has to think to come up with a response.
39. According to the text, advice given without active listening causes _____.
40. Closed questions are usually better than open questions, because they get the point of what you want to know.
41. People tend to not listen to _____, instead they listen to _______.
42. In the example of Jim and Margaret, which one provided the goal statement?
43. Projection occurs when you lose your _____
44. Coaching is
45. Which of the following is an example of a mentoree couple’s motives behind a question:
46. Answering a question with a question is a terrible tool for marriage mentors.
47. What is the value of reflecting the thinking behind the message of a mentoree?
48. According to the text, quality questions do all of the following except:
49. All of the following are reasons why advice should be given sparingly except:
50. When the text says “it rests with you to carry the conversation,” it means all of the following except:

Set 2

1. The best kinds of questions to ask are:
2. What does having a conversation about goals and desires involve?
3. When the text says “it rests with you to carry the conversation,” it means all of the following except:
4. Holding Hearts are people who are naturally gentle with other people. It is less of a skill set and more of a mindset.
5. What is considered a key intuition indicator?
6. Asking a mentoree couple “What do you sing about?” is referring to:
7. One reason to withhold advice-giving in marriage mentoring is because it can easily be _______ instead of for the best interest of the couple.
8. What happened when the author fell asleep in one of his first counseling sessions?
9. According to the text, all of the above are useful leads for the active listener except:
10. According to the authors, what is the first challenge of every mentor couple?
11. According to the text, being aware of your desires can lead to:
12. According to the text, advice given without active listening causes _____.
13. What does aggressive listening do?
14. Marriage mentors are expected to have all the answers.
15. Once you recognize the power of this skill, you will never approach marriage mentoring relationships without it. What is this skill?
16. According to the text, listeners should:
17. According to the text, which of the following is not included in the Guidelines for Effective Listening?
18. Answering a question with a question is a terrible tool for marriage mentors.
19. Closed questions are usually better than open questions, because they get the point of what you want to know.
20. All of the following are examples of how Jesus used questions except:
21. Which of the following is not a situation that cultivates selfishness and pride in relationships?
22. People are usually oriented toward thoughts or feelings, instead of maintaining an equal balance of both.
23. Listening well is easy and does not require diligent work.
24. The skill of effective listening is also known as:
25. Effective listening is good, but not necessarily essential to a good foundation in a marriage.
26. Godly goals can be created from our desires.
27. Which is not one of the six questions Maxwell uses to help him in conversations:
28. All of the following are true of setting goals in marriage except
29. All of the following are reasons why advice should be given sparingly except:
30. Silence in response to a question can be a positive reaction and an indication that the other person has to think to come up with a response.
31. People tend to not listen to _____, instead they listen to _______.
32. According to the author, what verse helps to adopt Jesus’ posture in relationship?
33. What does the author instruct men to do?
34. What do the authors say it takes to strengthen and protect a marriage?
35. Other couples are not a helpful resource for marriage mentors.
36. What activity did the author use as an analogy to explain loving listening?
37. What is the value of reflecting the thinking behind the message of a mentoree?
38. What dose it mean to have S.M.A.R.T. goals? Having goals that are:
39. According to the text, which of the following is a type of goal?
40. What are the two components of life-giving conversation?
41. Which of the following is an example of a mentoree couple’s motives behind a question:
42. Projection occurs when you lose your _____
43. Feelings and thoughts are mutually exclusive and do not occur together.
44. Using reflecting, you can hone in on which three aspects of a mentorees message?
45. According to the text, which of the following should NOT be explored in intimate conversations?
46. According to the text, asking for what you want is selfish.
47. First foremost, it is most important to be prepared with the “right” questions.
48. What is Asking Rule Seven?
49. What is involved in the brainstorming, evaluating, and committing step in goal setting?
50. What is the significance of asking someone about their values?