CCOU 301 Exam 2

CCOU 301 Exam 2 Liberty University

Set 1

1. According to the course text (Clinton & Sibcy), when we are free of the external and internal influences that cloud our true desires, we realize that we truly crave to be seen, known, understood and  __________.
2. Understanding one’s story from a new perspective is called _______.
3. The family systems perspective
4. Barring major problems, sexual satisfaction tends to increase over time.
5. Cleaving makes two incomplete people into a whole marriage.
6. Based on our presenter as he describes grief recovery, time heals all grief, as opposed to doing anything about the grief/loss.
7. Which of the following is notlisted as one of the key aspects in the marriage bond?
8. Reflecting the feelings of your spouse is not as important as clarifying content.
9. Assimilation
10. The seasons of marriage according to our presentation are…
11. Core ingredients of healthy marital communication includes
12. Intimacy is a multi modal experience.
13. According to our presentation, couples may feel disconnected or like strangers during the __________ stage due to their relationship being neglected due to children.
14. The Clinton & Sibcy textbook explains that since each of us has our own share of human frailties, husbands and wives intentionally, and more often, unintentionally cause one another pain. This happens to couples with which of the following attachment styles?
15. The ability to see the world from another person’s perspective and have compassion and mercy is called _________.
16. Which of the following should the victim extend to the offender who is not repentant?
17. Role Playing
18. The ________ emphasis of the past has shifted to a(n) ________ emphasis in present day.
19. The textbook (Clinton & Sibcy) refers to the typical pattern of hurting couples as pursue-withdraw. Which of the following is not one thing the authors suggest must be considered in order for couples to move into a healthier relationship?
20. Completion compulsion refers to the idea of marriage as something to help me become a whole person.
21. The ________ theory conceives of mate selection as an open market in which individuals try to find the best mate they can, given what they have to offer
22. The emphasis in the past was on commitment to marriage
23. When considering arguments and fights, what is most important to success and longevity in marriage?
24. Judith Viorst refers to losses that everyone must face at different stages of life in order to grow and reach the next level of development as:
25. A person who follows a destructive path of self-blame or bitterness is likely to say which of the following statements?
26. When considering how to create a comfortable child, it is important to let the child “cry it out” from time to time.  Why is this important?
27. Hurting families
28. Research shows that which of the following roles shrinks or disappears for many couples for at least 2 years following the birth of the couples’ first child?
29. Genesis 2:24 is the great marital passage that instructs couples to:
30. Stories of faith and redemption cause us to

Set 2

1. The Christian perspective of mate selection, according to Balswick & Balswick, follows which order?
2. According to the course text (Clinton & Sibcy), when we are free of the external and internal influences that cloud our true desires, we realize that we truly crave to be seen, known, understood and
3. According to our presentation, couples may feel disconnected or like strangers during the __________ stage due to their relationship being neglected due to children.
4. Based on our presenter as he describes grief recovery, time heals all grief, as opposed to doing anything about the grief/loss.
5. According to the book, four factors that help you organize your parenting style are training your child in the way of love, emotional learning sensitivity, and
6. Judith Viorst refers to losses that everyone must face at different stages of life in order to grow and reach the next level of development as:
7. Which of the following reflects the dowry system?
8. The emphasis in the past was on commitment to marriage
9. Nothing lasts on this earth-everything breaks down and comes to naught.
10. The Clinton & Sibcy textbook explains that since each of us has our own share of human frailties, husbands and wives intentionally, and more often, unintentionally cause one another pain. This happens to couples with which of the following attachment styles?
11. The ability to see the world from another person’s perspective and have compassion and mercy is called
12. Research shows that which of the following roles shrinks or disappears for many couples for at least 2 years following the birth of the couples’ first child?
13. Stories of faith and redemption cause us to
14. Role Playing
15. Core ingredients of healthy marital communication includes
16. Understanding one’s story from a new perspective is called
17. Cleaving makes two incomplete people into a whole marriage.
18. Authority in Christian marriages involves
19. Reflecting the feelings of your spouse is not as important as clarifying content.
20. Assimilation
21. The ________ emphasis of the past has shifted to a(n) ________ emphasis in present day.
22. Which of the following is not something learned from God’s establishing a covenant with Noah and Abraham?
23. The family systems perspective
24. When considering arguments and fights, what is most important to success and longevity in marriage?
25. Which of the following should the victim extend to the offender who is not repentant?
26. According to our presentation, to know and to be known is the definition of intimacy.
27. When considering how to create a comfortable child, it is important to let the child “cry it out” from time to time. Why is this important?
28. The textbook (Clinton & Sibcy) refers to the typical pattern of hurting couples as pursue- withdraw. Which of the following is not one thing the authors suggest must be considered in order for couples to move into a healthier relationship?
29. A person who follows a destructive path of self-blame or bitterness is likely to say which of the following statements?
30. Intimacy is a multi modal experience.

Set 3

1. Which of the following reflects the dowry system?
2. The number one source of conflict among young couples is
3. The Clinton & Sibcy textbook explains that since each of us has our own share of human frailties, husbands and wives intentionally, and more often, unintentionally cause one another pain. This happens to couples with which of the following attachment styles?
4. Hurting families
5. Authority in Christian marriages involves
6. In order to become more partner focused, spouses must learn to
7. What percentage of all first marriages, according to Warren, endure and are truly happy?
8. The ________ emphasis of the past has shifted to a(n) ________ emphasis in present day.
9. Research shows that which of the following roles shrinks or disappears for many couples for at least 2 years following the birth of the couples’ first child?
10. The ________ theory conceives of mate selection as an open market in which individuals try to find the best mate they can, given what they have to offer
11. According to Smalley what percentage of marriages do researchers predict end in divorce due to communication problems?
12. Getting to know as much as possible about your potential mate is important. One of the ways to do that is:
13. When playing the role of the employee in resolving a conflict you must:
14. Research indicates that regardless of whether we agree with the way our parents handled their marriage or parenting responsibilities, when a similar situation arises in our own family…
15. According to the course text (Clinton & Sibcy), when we are free of the external and internal influences that cloud our true desires, we realize that we truly crave to be seen, known, understood and
16. When considering arguments and fights, what is most important to success and longevity in marriage?
17. According to the Clinton & Sibcy textbook, difficulties in marriage can arise from crowded schedules, money pressure, communication problems, and also from
18. The family systems perspective
19. What percentage of marriages reports a decline in overall marital satisfaction following the transition to parenthood?
20. Most marital problems can be traced back to:
21. The most frequent argument among couples following the transition to parenthood is:
22. The Fall cursed men to
23. The 4 horsemen of marital apocalypse include
24. The textbook (Clinton & Sibcy) refers to the typical pattern of hurting couples as pursue‐withdraw. Which of the following is not one thing the authors suggest must be considered in order for couples to move into a healthier relationship?
25. Assimilation
26. Of all children of divorce, 50% have not seen their father in the past how many months?
27. Negative thoughts about your spouse which erode intimacy are referred to in this video as:
28. The emphasis in the past was on commitment to marriage
29. Core ingredients of healthy marital communication includes
30. Shared activities that couples should learn to enjoy are
31. Judith Viorst refers to losses that everyone must face at different stages of life in order to grow and reach the next level of development as:
32. Leaving parents is as much an emotional as physical requirement.
33. Mothers with children at home report greater satisfaction if their husbands:
34. Role Playing
35. Which of the following factors makes it more difficult for couples to transition to parenthood today?
36. Second half couples face crises of
37. Genesis 2:24 is the great marital passage that instructs couples to:
38. A person who follows a destructive path of self‐blame or bitterness is likely to say which of the following statements?
39. Research by John Gottman, Ph.D. indicates that one of the main characteristics of couples who report satisfaction in their relationship is that they see each other as:
40. When considering how to create a comfortable child, it is important to let the child “cry it out” from time to time. Why is this important?
41. What percentage of persons in our society has experienced some aspect of divorce?
42. Which of the following are misconceptions about forgiveness?
43. Of all divorces that occur, what percentage occurs in the first 2 to 3 years?
44. Understanding one’s story from a new perspective is called
45. The U in LUV Talk represents:
46. According to the Balswick & Balswick, in the definition of power, the emphasis is placed
47. The V in LUV Talk represents:
48. The ability to see the world from another person’s perspective and have compassion and mercy is called
49. According to the book, four factors that help you organize your parenting style are training your child in the way of love, emotional learning sensitivity, and
50. Which of the following is not listed as one of the key aspects in the marriage bond?